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Talk with Bill

9/17/2013

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Principles

Family

Talk with Bill

Was speaking the other day with Bill, a 46 year old gallery manager, about
his ex-marine, adventurer, racing mechanic, athletic father.  When Bill had
asked him, with all his abilities, why he hadn't done better in life, he
answered because he had kids.  Great to hear that.  Funny, my mom once
gave me the same answer.

At the time I had this take on the subject.  I mentioned people at the
top are often superficial.  They rode a wave of force that often came
before them. It was just like surfing, they took off and things came their
way.  Sometimes extreme success limits our growth as humans.  Not all
of life is experienced.  Most of us, maybe like Bill's dad, are in the middle,
dealing with emotions, conflicts and the totality of human experience,
less black and white than the top.  This is just another perspective,
not an anti-success writing.  The middle, with its contradictions and
conflicting pulls, is often where the hard work is done and the stuff life
is made from.

2 Comments
Jann Edwards
9/21/2013 09:36:36 am

How does one define a successful human being?

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steven
9/21/2013 11:01:02 pm

Thanks Jane for contributing. Many levels to define it, but within the context of what Bill meant, he was talking I suppose about financial well being. While materialistic, children of parents who weren't often financially successful are conscious of the limitations it imposes on them. Just a fact. Less options, lee way, back up.

The second paragraph talks about success or meaning in a deeper context, where the 'work is done.'

Bill has a right to see his father in both veins. It's good to know what your from.

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