living with another

No easy resolution

8/26/2013

61. Past

Principle

Man/woman

No easy resolution

It’s become very difficult to process anything anymore. It is even hard
to know whether to be with a woman. To be with a woman can add a sense of
security and stability. True. On the other hand, it is very hard to
live with anyone these days. It is also very hard to live alone. The
chores alone require more than one person. There is no easy resolution to
this.

Marty

8/27/2013 08:42:02 am

Better to be alone than miserable in your own home. I've seen too many jump for cohabitation because of loneliness only to find it become a nightmare a few years down the road. Do it only with the right women and you will know if she is the right one. Otherwise, peaceful loneliness is better. Join a club or find an activity if you need personal interaction w/ others

steven

8/27/2013 09:15:00 am

Sobering observation. Good practical suggestion.

tom

8/31/2013 01:24:35 am

Hi Steve,
In my opinion being without a woman, who sometimes smiles from the inside, seems more natural. Issues, nonsense, etc but if one is spiritually aware then understanding and compromising is not so hard. With most though ego can really get in the way.....
No question we are different, by design.
Regards,
Tom

steven

8/31/2013 06:13:31 am

What do you mean 'smiles from the inside."

Tom

8/31/2013 06:15:16 am

The rare insider smilers seem to be in touch with their souls. They care for and love others with ease.....they have a knowing and awareness about life. However it is not constant and only noticeable at times.

steven

8/31/2013 06:19:51 am

Subtle layer of observation 'the rare insider smilers' and their being in touch with their souls. Also subtle observation that it is not constant.
Your view of being with a woman contrary to what one would think. Many layers and you're seeing them.

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No easy resolution

Steven B. Nussdorf records his lifelong search to find meaning outside of the normal channels. He uses writing, poetry, and drawing to document this effort.

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