A little foolish
Women often need in a man some kind of security. If you are not financially well off or just secure does this mean you have a sentence for the rest of your life not to be with a woman? You might make an effort to become secure but what if that doesn’t work? You might even have done the right thing for part or much of your life, but what if your finances didn’t work out? Your motivation might have been unconsciously to do well so you could have a mate. No matter what the cause, if you don’t have enough, what do you do? Do you end up in a room alone and dry up emotionally and physically?
Sometimes to live we need the chase of being a “guy” after a woman. It makes it possible to put up with a lot of other nonsense personally and in the work world. It motivates us to dress nicely and keep good habits and hygiene. We sometimes need that animal element in life. If you see a woman you want to date and you are not well off, you might have to sell yourself, bluff a little, joke and be sassy. This is part of life. Rather you be a little dishonest but have something to look forward to for the next day. You might even be a little foolish, but that’s part of life. We all end up foolish in some way, and this is your portion.