Systems, patterns, and understanding
What you opposed when young is also a part of you. Your reactions to what you opposed formed new beliefs and actions, which eventually also fell short. Your old beliefs were inadequate, your new ones are not fully right, so you remain in no man’s land. What you thought was the answer wasn’t, so you still have to search and look for what makes sense, but it is no longer clear. In this way we evolve into a bigger view of life. Our understanding and acceptance are forced to enlarge.